The Beauty of Femininity and Surrender

Since the last instalment, it has been quite a journey indeed. This process has taken me twice as long to come to the clarity and awareness of what my next blog is about. I got stuck in trying to make it happen, which of course goes against my intention of this very journey and process of writing about my spiritual quest for growth and change. And that is something which you definitely cannot make happen or force, because of its very nature it IS a force to which we need to surrender and that requires humility.

If you truly intend something , you cant make it happen. You are the instrument that CREATES the intention, and the universe chooses which cords to play, or how it is played out in your life. And if you don’t create or choose an intention consciously, the universe will create something for you to show you.

It is a surrendering which requires faith, trust and patience, so it has been a lesson within a lesson. To have trust in myself that I will know what it is I am to write about. How will I know? When I am crystal clear about it. The moment I realised was whilst watching a young woman being interviewed on DR Phil, who was so beautiful in the way that she was articulating so clearly from feeling and truth in a way beyond her years. Clear truth is timeless and beautiful.

It also requires patience to wait for the right time, or for the moment of clarity and not just do it because I felt I had to do it once a week. I became so hard on myself for not knowing because the first three blogs just happened that way. So as a result I tried to force a blog and began writing about self worth instead but it just wasn’t happening because it wasn’t clear and didn’t flow. Another lesson within a lesson!

So surrendering to the flow in life and to be clear about the truth within you is represented as true beauty when you express that part of you. So how this relates to femininity and being a woman is very relevant because as women we are the most in touch with the cycles of life, in nature and the planets. In fact it is interesting to note that this all happened at the peak time of the full moon, lunar eclipse and shortly before the partial solar eclipse which happens only every 18 years which relates to radical change.

We have become masculine in many ways, by trying to make things happen, our world and society has become that way and so have we as women. What does that mean??? So, yes go out there and make your dreams happen, but be open and aware to the signs if things don’t happen or aren’t working out. My sign was that the internet and my emails were freezed up, yet still I tried to make it happen. (That’s my female chauvinism!)

So where in your life now are you not listening to or paying attention to the signs? What have you repeatedly been trying to do to make it happen but keep coming up against roadblocks? What are the subtle messages behind this and how could you do it differently, or at all????

This is how the great change within our world begins, and it all starts with YOU. Life and beauty unfolds from the inside out. And this relates to both women and men. But as women you have the advantage of naturally having these gifts, that is why the Dali Lama said that “the world will be saved by the western woman”, because we are equipped to make things happen AND have the biological make up to know and be in touch with WHAT to make happen. Both the masculine and the feminine (you will learn more on that at the September workshop).

So what is it that you want to make happen now? How can you be the change that you wish to see in the world?

Secure your place for the 4^th September Inside Out beauty workshop at the Intuitive Well Bondi Junction 12-5pm. 10 places only available with more workshop dates to be released. Invitation coming shortly. Email expressions of interest to nicole@insideoutbeauty.com.au

Until the next instalment along the journey I wish you patience, faith, surrender, clarity and truth.

Love Light and Beauty,

Nicole